Comments for SAVE: Stop Abusive and Violent Environments http://www.saveservices.org Wed, 26 Oct 2011 19:31:33 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v= Comment on Rape Hysteria Growing on College Campuses by godlygal http://www.saveservices.org/2011/10/rape-hysteria-growing-on-college-campuses/comment-page-1/#comment-143 godlygal Wed, 26 Oct 2011 19:31:33 +0000 http://www.saveservices.org/?p=6168#comment-143 Your readers might want to read “The Chilly World of the Campus Male”. http://www.mindingthecampus.com/originals/2011/10/chilly_world_of_the_campus_male.html Your readers might want to read “The Chilly World of the Campus Male”. http://www.mindingthecampus.com/originals/2011/10/chilly_world_of_the_campus_male.html

]]> Comment on SAVE Sends Letter to VP Biden Regarding his Upcoming Appearance on The View by Robert http://www.saveservices.org/2011/09/save-sends-letter-to-vp-biden-regarding-his-upcoming-appearance-on-the-view/comment-page-1/#comment-130 Robert Fri, 30 Sep 2011 00:22:02 +0000 http://www.saveservices.org/?p=5790#comment-130 I commend all of you ladies and gentlemen of S.A.V.E. for raising awareness of the biases that exist in our nation. For the past four years, I have been trying to raise awareness of domestic violence and abuse as equal opportunity offenses. Men and Women should not commit acts of violence against each other. In 2006, a woman I did not know falsely accused me of committing an act of violence against her. She bragged about doing so on a public news blog. Her name is Sandi Delk. Here is the link to the thread; http://www.topix.com/forum/news/violent-crime/TPL4FKSHEEHCDLA5I/p2 The police officers who arrested me apparently thought it was a "domestic violence" call. Because of her false accusation, my life is ruined. The public defenders that were representing me coerced me into accepting a plea bargain. I have been in the military since 1994. They and the state of Tennessee knew this. They knew I could not wait two to three years for my case to go to trial. They knew they had me between a rock and a hard place I printed every pafe of that thread. As soon as I save the money for an attorney, I am going to seek exhoneration. I thank you for everything you all do. As soon as I get a better paying job, which I hope is soon, I am going to be sending donations to help you continue your valuable and needed work. Thank you all. I commend all of you ladies and gentlemen of S.A.V.E. for raising awareness of the biases that exist in our nation. For the past four years, I have been trying to raise awareness of domestic violence and abuse as equal opportunity offenses. Men and Women should not commit acts of violence against each other. In 2006, a woman I did not know falsely accused me of committing an act of violence against her. She bragged about doing so on a public news blog. Her name is Sandi Delk.

Here is the link to the thread;

http://www.topix.com/forum/news/violent-crime/TPL4FKSHEEHCDLA5I/p2

The police officers who arrested me apparently thought it was a “domestic violence” call.

Because of her false accusation, my life is ruined. The public defenders that were representing me coerced me into accepting a plea bargain. I have been in the military since 1994. They and the state of Tennessee knew this. They knew I could not wait two to three years for my case to go to trial. They knew they had me between a rock and a hard place I printed every pafe of that thread. As soon as I save the money for an attorney, I am going to seek exhoneration. I thank you for everything you all do. As soon as I get a better paying job, which I hope is soon, I am going to be sending donations to help you continue your valuable and needed work. Thank you all.

]]> Comment on SAVE Sends Letter to VP Biden Regarding his Upcoming Appearance on The View by S.A.V.E. calls for outrage after Biden appearance | A Voice for Men http://www.saveservices.org/2011/09/save-sends-letter-to-vp-biden-regarding-his-upcoming-appearance-on-the-view/comment-page-1/#comment-127 S.A.V.E. calls for outrage after Biden appearance | A Voice for Men Wed, 28 Sep 2011 21:38:03 +0000 http://www.saveservices.org/?p=5790#comment-127 [...] http://www.saveservices.org/2011/09/save-sends-letter-to-vp-biden-regarding-his-upcoming-appearance-... [...] [...] http://www.saveservices.org/2011/09/save-sends-letter-to-vp-biden-regarding-his-upcoming-appearance-... [...]

]]> Comment on The National Epidemic Known as “DV Run Around” by elliemc http://www.saveservices.org/2011/09/the-national-epidemic-known-as-%e2%80%9cdv-run-around%e2%80%9d/comment-page-1/#comment-125 elliemc Sun, 25 Sep 2011 16:46:39 +0000 http://www.saveservices.org/?p=5547#comment-125 Absolutely can relate to this , I ve been going through this for a year , endless referrals ,support services 'legal wish wash and police ignorance . Court proceedings ' that I would have termed as judge proceedings that have left me more vulnerable than I was, when it all started . Question is " where do I go from here" ? :( Absolutely can relate to this , I ve been going through this for a year , endless referrals ,support services ‘legal wish wash and police ignorance . Court proceedings ‘ that I would have termed as judge proceedings that have left me more vulnerable than I was, when it all started . Question is ” where do I go from here” ? :(

]]> Comment on CAMP by rebelwords http://www.saveservices.org/camp/comment-page-1/#comment-123 rebelwords Fri, 23 Sep 2011 23:21:00 +0000 http://www.saveservices.org/?page_id=5111#comment-123 Facebook users' reactions to Ms. Becker's violence were chilling: === Gloria Burkett Ciecka: Mom and Housewife at My Family “I laughed the attack was listed as “aggravated mayhem”. Think that kind of mayhem will be covered by an Allstate policy?” Gloria Burkett Ciecka: Mom and Housewife at My Family “lol” Nikki Mix “His member was definitely not “in good hands”!!” Liliana Vasquez-Duran: Top Commenter, Los Angeles, California “Really aggrevated mayham yet rape and child molestation doesn’t get you life in prison. It’s no wonder James Brown call it a Man’s World.” Stacey Walker “We’ll she did call 911 after ha ha! Good he probably cheated on her. Based on the last name he sounds like some white guy that married a 3rd world bride figuring he would get a meek little servant wife….. WRONG! Thems the breaks when you don’t go American… you get what you pay for!” Maria Romero “Her husband probably deserved it..” === ...<a href="http://www.rebelwords.org/2011/07/just-because-it-sounds-funn/" rel="nofollow">ad infinitum at rebelwords.org</a. Facebook users’ reactions to Ms. Becker’s violence were chilling:
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Gloria Burkett Ciecka: Mom and Housewife at My Family

“I laughed the attack was listed as “aggravated mayhem”. Think that kind of mayhem will be covered by an Allstate policy?”

Gloria Burkett Ciecka: Mom and Housewife at My Family
“lol”

Nikki Mix
“His member was definitely not “in good hands”!!”

Liliana Vasquez-Duran: Top Commenter, Los Angeles, California
“Really aggrevated mayham yet rape and child molestation doesn’t get you life in prison. It’s no wonder James Brown call it a Man’s World.”

Stacey Walker
“We’ll she did call 911 after ha ha! Good he probably cheated on her. Based on the last name he sounds like some white guy that married a 3rd world bride figuring he would get a meek little servant wife….. WRONG! Thems the breaks when you don’t go American… you get what you pay for!”

Maria Romero
“Her husband probably deserved it..”
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…ad infinitum at rebelwords.org</a.

]]> Comment on VAWA: Mandate for Change by Our So-Called Rape Culture | Shrink4Men http://www.saveservices.org/mandate-for-change/comment-page-1/#comment-120 Our So-Called Rape Culture | Shrink4Men Thu, 15 Sep 2011 03:52:38 +0000 http://www.saveservices.org/?page_id=4892#comment-120 [...] my opinion, men have far more reason to fear women in our culture than women have to fear [...] [...] my opinion, men have far more reason to fear women in our culture than women have to fear [...]

]]> Comment on On TV Situation Comedies, Girls Eight Times More Likely to Hit Boys by getreal13 http://www.saveservices.org/2011/08/on-tv-situation-comedies-girls-eight-times-more-likely-to-hit-boys/comment-page-1/#comment-117 getreal13 Fri, 02 Sep 2011 18:26:36 +0000 http://www.saveservices.org/?p=5389#comment-117 It is not only the physical violence perpetrated on men, but also the verbal abuse you will see on these sitcoms. Eddie Haskell never hit the Beav, nor did he call an idiot, stupid, lard ass, moron, dead beat, scumbag and so on. These are the names you will hear television wives calling their T.V. husbands on a daily basis and they don't skip a beat. Watch adult sitcoms to see what I'm talking (you'll never miss with the show "King of Queens"). In this show the wife constantly punches her husband in the stomach, calls him every name in the book, and, of course, he is always the idiot doing something wrong. She, on the other hand, is the almighty all knowing. Woman make it sound as if they were horrendously abused, yet, when I watch old shows, such as I Love Lucy, The Beverly Hillbillies. Andy Griffith, Leave it to Beaver, it seems like the ladies received the utmost respect. Ricky wasn't like, "Yo bitch, get me some dinner!" It is not only the physical violence perpetrated on men, but also the verbal abuse you will see on these sitcoms. Eddie Haskell never hit the Beav, nor did he call an idiot, stupid, lard ass, moron, dead beat, scumbag and so on. These are the names you will hear television wives calling their T.V. husbands on a daily basis and they don’t skip a beat. Watch adult sitcoms to see what I’m talking (you’ll never miss with the show “King of Queens”). In this show the wife constantly punches her husband in the stomach, calls him every name in the book, and, of course, he is always the idiot doing something wrong. She, on the other hand, is the almighty all knowing. Woman make it sound as if they were horrendously abused, yet, when I watch old shows, such as I Love Lucy, The Beverly Hillbillies. Andy Griffith, Leave it to Beaver, it seems like the ladies received the utmost respect. Ricky wasn’t like, “Yo bitch, get me some dinner!”

]]> Comment on Elert: Mandate for DV Screening Is A Slap in the Face to Men by tolbertme http://www.saveservices.org/2011/08/elert-mandate-for-dv-screening-is-a-slap-in-the-face-to-men/comment-page-1/#comment-112 tolbertme Wed, 03 Aug 2011 18:36:21 +0000 http://www.saveservices.org/?p=4908#comment-112 Done! Done!

]]> Comment on Listing of Members of OVW Advisory Committee by Gabrielle Union defends Rihanna’s "Man Down" | Twitter Template Blog http://www.saveservices.org/2011/05/listing-of-members-of-ovw-advisory-committee/comment-page-1/#comment-102 Gabrielle Union defends Rihanna’s "Man Down" | Twitter Template Blog Wed, 08 Jun 2011 22:56:29 +0000 http://www.saveservices.org/?p=3901#comment-102 [...] outspoken activist for abuse victims (Union is involved in a number of organizations including  Stop Abusive and Violent Environments and Futures Without Violence) took to her Twitter to release a stream ofArticle source: [...] [...] outspoken activist for abuse victims (Union is involved in a number of organizations including  Stop Abusive and Violent Environments and Futures Without Violence) took to her Twitter to release a stream ofArticle source: [...]

]]> Comment on Abuse Hysteria in Maine by The Movement to Disbar Mary N. Kellett « A Voice for Men http://www.saveservices.org/dvlp/campaigns/abuse-hysteria-campaign/comment-page-1/#comment-74 The Movement to Disbar Mary N. Kellett « A Voice for Men Tue, 29 Mar 2011 19:09:49 +0000 http://www.saveservices.org/#comment-74 [...] organization Stopping Abusive and Violent Environments (S.A.V.E.) has taken the even more significant action, sending a Complaint for the Disbarment of Prosecutor [...] [...] organization Stopping Abusive and Violent Environments (S.A.V.E.) has taken the even more significant action, sending a Complaint for the Disbarment of Prosecutor [...]

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